She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." Most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. But in the world of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to sex therapist (and evangelist of the female orgasm) Ian Kerner, oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay: simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again. Can you say "viva la vulva"?

Fun and informative, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring that sexual fulfillment is mutual.

From Publishers Weekly

Dispelling the widely held myth of genital penetration as the apogee of sexual pleasure, Kerner, who holds a doctorate in clinical sexology, offers this witty, well-researched manual for "consistently leading women to orgasm" through cunnilingus. Loaded with practical anatomical information (the clitoris has 18 distinct parts, and more nerve fibers than any other part of the human body) and graphic line drawings, the book also touches on the less mechanical, more psychological aspects of oral sex, including the three assurances every woman needs from her lover to feel comfortable: (1) "you enjoy it as much as she does"; (2) "there's no rush"; and (3) "Her scent is provocative, her taste powerful: it all emanates from the same beautiful essence." Since studies show the average woman takes about 20 minutes to reach her first orgasm during a typical sex session, while men take a mere four minutes, Kerner advises men to delay their own climax and make oral sex "coreplay" ("the substantive phase in which sexual tension builds, culminates and then releases itself through the female orgasm"), instead of foreplay. Breaking down six stages of coreplay, from the "first kiss" to orgasm, Kerner speaks to both beginners and more seasoned lovers. His candor concerning his own bout with sexual dysfunction adds a compassionate tone and credibility to this decidedly pro-female methodology.
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Sex on first date more likely for Android users

The type of smartphone you use can reveal a lot about your love life and dating style, according to a new survey. "Thanks to social networking and online dating, our love lives and our digital lives have never been more intertwined," said Match.com in a release about its survey of more than 1,000 Canadian singles. Among the findings: People who use Android phones are more likely to have sex on a first date, 62 per cent, compared to 57 per cent of iPhone users and 48 per cent of BlackBerry users. Android phone users are also more likely to partake in one-night stands, 55 per cent, compared to 50 per cent of iPhone users and 47.6 per cent of BlackBerry users. At 72 per cent, Android users were also the most active on online dating websites, compared to 58 per cent of those with iPhones and 50 per cent of people who have BlackBerrys. iPhone users were most likely to date in the workplace with nearly 25 per cent saying they have dated a co-worker in the last five years. BlackBerry users were the most likely to consume alcohol on a first date — 72 per cent. FULL STORY - http://www.cbc.ca/news/offbeat/story/2012/02/01/tech-smartphone-dating-survey.html

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Ok so the dating has gone great and you at the bedroom door the heat is on and the clothes are coming off but do you control a little discipline or is it all out like a porn star. Does moving your date from position to position and treating your date like a porn star put your new love off with the thoughts of how are they so experienced ? how many conquests have they already had ? or do they think god thats so good i need more i must keep this relationship going.

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what is your idea on the best public sex location. from experiences i had my most memorable public sex experience doggy style in the showcase cinema in Peterborough England oh yes! a great girl who worked for me we see each other for a while and she was hot we even got caught in sainsburys car park one lunch time by more of my staff we were sat in my car and she was giving me head then a spotted them walking over to me oh well i always laughed at me miss doings and getting seen was funny.

Sex Addict or just horny

A friend was talking about sex addiction today and some interesting thoughts were shared, one thought was very debated and really seemed to divide the men and the women so i was wondering if i could get some views from you guys basically state male or female yes or no heres the thought is sex addiction just a great thought up excuse for men to cheat and justify when they are caught that its addiction?

What makes your profile attractive online.

So what gives you the edge when you create a dating profile. Women that add photos on to the dating site will receive double as many email messages from interested guys as opposed to women that don't add photos. As for men the same surveys reported that men who filled out there profiles indicating incomes above $250,000 received over 156% more email messages from interested women than the guys reporting over the $50,000 bracket.
An attractive profile would often include an articulate yet brief description of your passions, a couple of things your friends describe you, qualities and strengths you look for in a potential partner, what people notice about you (other than appearance), your sports and interests, and good books you have enjoyed or currently reading.

Dating a foreign women

It seem's to be the new way forward for so many men to look abroad for love via the internet the numbers of men on line looking for love has gone through the roof. But the ladies are starting to follow suit as European women over the years have become more assertive and divorces have risen in line with this they have started to look abroad and Asia is a great place to find a more submissive husband happy for the woman to be the bread winner. Thailand has been a man,s favourite for many many years now but increasingly western girls are walking the red light areas hand in hand with a local. YOU GO GIRLS! Certainly the guys no how to use dating sites to meet girls pre arranged when the holiday now it looks like the girls are in on the action world wide dating site are growing in popularity and soon may rival local dating.

are you a sex addict ?

Are you a sex addict ? is that so bad hey it's not like you murdered someone. Well first off i could be seen ass being a sex addict i love sex and i'm lucky enough to live in Thailand so i get as much as i want and very easy i can find sex daily. i wander out most days to meet up with friends for lunch thats really the start of the day for me i massage 3 or 4 times aweek sometimes real massage sometimes sex massage that cost around 10 pounds all in i visit my geeks thats the thai word for fuck buddy, and oh! geeks are free. I amounted around 14 or so in my city just depends on if some are away visiting there home towns. so i guess the question is am i a sex addict maybe but i happy i would not swap my lifestyle i have now for anything life really is good. So what about you is your sex life hot hot hot or do you feel like you live in the artic, well if you want to spice up you life join an adult dating site they work i used them successfully when i lived in england and you too gan be a happy sex addict.

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Sex Dating online contacts is it really possible? HECK YES. i set a profile added well dressed picture and two private pics one with my shirt unbuttoned and a second of my penis. filled out the forms about likes hates build etc etc searched out around 35 womens profiles that interested me sent the short emails saying "hi just found you profile you look great and reading about you, you interest me would you like to chat ? well i was'nt expecting much but the replys kept coming in and they liked my pic but wanted to see the private pics. i told all chat a while on the live chat and ill send the private pics i was astonished how simple it was to get emails phone numbers and from the 35 or so i searched 4 agreed very quickly to meet up coffee and if we gell sex afterwards i was so impressed with this dating site i joined there affilliate program an now promote them they are on here no strings dating if you really want to meet for extra marital sex join this site it really works well.

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Would you hire a escort prostitute hooker to have sex with your husband, have you hired a hooker and would you watch . If you have was it worth it? Some men are so lucky the girlfriends wifes are open to swinging and open relationships. Are you over jelous or could you buy a sex gift of a escort for your man. Well a friend of mine was lucky enough for his wife to do just that for his birthday she hired a young 23 year old escort and sat and watched the whole gift experiance. he has told me that it was so good he will do the same back for she and that they relationship has improved from this as well. please comment you would, would not, have done, or just too damn scared to ask.

do you fake orgasm do you think you girl fakes orgasms on you

When a woman fakes an orgasm, it’s usually because the guy she’s with isn’t getting her off and she doesn’t want to hurt his ego. Some male orgasm fakers may have a similar motivation. In fact, it may be even more damaging to a woman’s confidence to hear that her man isn’t climaxing, since the prevailing opinion is that men should be able to climax whenever, wherever and under any circumstance. Of course, this simply isn’t true,

When it comes to men and their members, we all know that what goes up must, eventually, come down. But what about when a guy’s erection goes up and stays up? At first blush, it sounds like bedroom benefit. But delayed ejaculation (DE) is a real problem. This umbrella term describes:

taking longer than usual to reach orgasm
only being able to get there via masturbation
not being able to peak at all
And it’s an issue that I'm seeing increasingly.

In the past DE was relatively rare compared with other "mechanical malfunctions" such as erectile disorder (ED) and premature ejaculation (PE), a subject I recently wrote about for this blog. Today, however, new factors are contributing to DE’s increased prevalence:
When a guy masturbates, he's often applying significantly higher levels of pressure and friction than during real intercourse, so he may get used to a different kind of physical feeling. It’s called developing an “idiosyncratic masturbatory style.” There are now a lot of guys who can get past the point of no return only via oral sex or manual stimulation (usually their own).

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Heading to Thailand to meet the opposite sex well you will be in for a very nice suprise. There is no ageism, fatism, racism or any other sort of discrimination with Thai ladies, they really don't care how fat old bald etc that you look like, but they do care how nice you are how you behave. Older men are more prized and seen to have greater consideration, also having the attentions of an older man is an increase in status for a young Thai woman. Our top tips, is to be polite smile and laugh at small things like your attempts to speak thai, and treat all the ladies with respect. Thai ladies are quick to smile in return and warm to you very quickly. Dont be affraid to look at girls in all walks of life many have worked bar at some period of there lifes and straight to the point polite conversation wins.

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the internet is growing at an amazing rate and one industry ADULT DATING is booming. As the world suffers under poor governments and less money is around for our pleasure members to sex dating contact sites are soaring. Its fast and easy to join the large databased sites are relivetly cheap and they work very well in aiding people to meet up.